Friday 183

Bonnie Tinker

Filed under: Politics, Portland, Society — Tags: , — zundel @ am

I feel a sudden and painful loss, leaving a gaping hole in my fabric of Portland. I don’t know how to describe the absence. She wasn’t a friend. If I flatter myself, I could have once called her colleague and ally: rarer than a friend. I enjoyed working with her.

She made a fierce ally. I remember sitting with her privately at Friends’ in July ’04 and frankly discussing the stark chance of defeating Measure 36. I remember her the year before in that same room trying to add her integrity and realism to the amorphous coalition opposing the invasion of Iraq.

The following quote from her exemplifies the mind and character we have lost:

It is a stark reminder for me that life is easier for sexual minorities of all backgrounds and definitions because other minority groups have struggled for centuries against discrimination. It is often simpler to consider homophobia by itself, to want to work only on “gay issues.” It is simpler, but it is dishonest. Sometimes those of us who are white become so consumed with the injustice we experience that we forget the many ways that white privilege lightens our load.

She wasn’t always easy, but she was often right. I remember her seriousness: the thought and effort, the dedication she applied when something mattered to her. I remember her well informed sharp intelligence and the integrity of her character.

Bonnie Tinker” by Altaira H 2009-07-04

Remembering Bonnie Tinker” by Eileen Flanagan from her blog “Imperfect Serenity” 2009-07-03

Bonnie Tinker – Love Makes A FamilySpirit In Action audio interview by Mark Judkins Helpsmeet 2006-08-06

Queer politics: Local and sustainable?” by Bonnie Tinker in The Portland Alliance July 2006

Language to open hearts and minds” by Bonnie Tinker in The Portland Alliance April 2006

We can’t force people to believe that discrimination is wrong, that the planet needs our protection, that marriage rights are human rights, that war is not the answer. But we can use words in a way that creates the possibility of change by unilaterally disarming our own speech.

20/20: Young Men with Gay Moms” by Alice Irene Pifer from “20/20” ABC News 2004-09-30

Tinker v Des Moines

A video that shows Bonnie’s charm and substance:


Tuesday 357

First Annual Stumptown Birkebeiner

Filed under: Photo, Portland — zundel @ am
Skiers on Nw Johnson at 14th in Portland, Oregon

"First Annual Stumptown Birkebeiner" by Jamie Francis of The Oregonian

Saturday 354


Filed under: Portland, Web — zundel @ pm

I just discovered that Portland has the blessing of an excellent search website.


Which also has a great weather page:


Thank you Benjamin and Paige.

Good photo

Filed under: Photo, Portland — zundel @ am

Monday 342

Mao Feng

Filed under: Portland, Tea — zundel @ pm

Having a really lovely cup of green Mao Feng I bought from Tao of Tea. Highly recommended.


Tuesday 322

Photo of the day

Filed under: Bike, Photo, Portland, Transportation — zundel @ am
Man-eating tracks  (Photo © J. Maus)

Man-eating tracks (Photo © J. Maus)

Tuesday 315

Blumenauer says no to Transportation

Filed under: Politics, Portland, Transportation — zundel @ am

I went to hear Earl Blumenauer tonight. Just what I needed. I’ll smile for a few days.

A room full of very smart and accomplished people looked up at the stage and felt comfortable because they knew they weren’t the smartest in the room—whatever they thought about who sat across the table.

Unless I misheard or misunderstood, Blumenauer politely and clearly said no to Secretary of Transportation. He’d love three months with the department, but his life doesn’t allow the commitment of secretary.

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